...see the world
as ones that have felt no pain
Eyes never heart broken
Eyes knowing only love and compassion
Her eyes
See the world
In a way lost to me
With wonder and amazement
With beauty and splendor
Her eyes
Study every object that passes by
Each capturing her imagination
As she studies them intently
Deconstructing what they see
Her eyes
Look at me…
…so intently
Peering into the very depths of my soul
Learning me
Speaking to me
Deconstructing me
Showing me what I cannot see
Her eyes
Command, no demand attention
Not to be ignored
But they do even this so gently
As they look at me so intently
Her eyes
Hold such beauty
That sometimes they blind me
They Inspire me
Challenge me
to be more than I ever thought I could be
Her eyes
Say love me
Her eyes
love learning
Her eyes
Speak volumes to me
Her eyes
Desire to see
Her eyes
Comfort me
I wish you could see
What I see
Through
Her eyes
© 2009 Harvey M. Christian
Friday, February 26, 2010
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Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Theme Music
During my morning commute I listen to NPR’s The Take Away. During today’s show Celeste Headlee stated that hiring managers are asking a new interview question. The question is, if you had theme music and walked into a room what would people hear? My initial thought when I heard this question was why would that question be relevant? After some thought, I concluded, while I do not know their reasoning behind the question, while unorthodox, it does make sense to me. I believe how the person answers may provide insight into how they view and feel about themselves. An example would be if a person responds their theme music would be, Pusherman by Curtis Mayfield. I would immediately think I may want to pass on this candidate because he/she my see themselves as a dealer or pimp. Which I would only view as a positive if I were hiring them for a pharmaceutical sales position, I jest. While this is an extreme example it does illustrate how the question can have relevance. My next thought, what my response would be if the question were ever posed to me. The short answer is I do not know. You see, from my perspective the question asks what one song defines you. The issue is that no one song defines me. I really think that my theme song would change based on the situation. What do I mean you ask? If I walked into work my theme song would be different then if I walked into my home. Quite honestly, my theme music might vary based on the day of the week or time of day. I am after all made up of many layers and each of these layers can be represented by a different song. I am composed of many tempos. Sometimes I am instrumental others acapella or something in between. I have moments where I am Soul, and times where I am Classical but I am always House. There are moments when I am country and yet others where I am Rock and Roll yet always Gospel. So to pick a single song is impossible and would not do me justice. I could only say that I am always music.
I wonder how the hiring manager would analyze that response. Would they think I am being less than truthful? Would they try to back me in a corner and force me to answer? Would my inability to give them an answer disqualify me as a candidate? If you were interviewing me what would you think?
and…
If someone posed this question to you, what would your theme music be?
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
What -vs- Who
Someone I love dearly is sitting for an examination very soon. This will not be their first time taking this exam. A year ago, just prior to taking the exam the Lord put something on my heart to tell them so I passed it on. While I do not remember exactly what I said the gist was… The examination is simply a means to an end. You are blessed that you have found something in your life that you love, are passionate about and can make a living wage doing. So, go into the exam with that understanding and have fun. Don’t let this exam steal the love you have for your chosen vocation. The adversary attacks us where we are most vulnerable. He has identified this area in your life. So, go in to the exam with a different attitude. That is it, have fun. My loved one said they had never looked at it that way and thanked me. Fast forward a year…Time is fast approaching for my loved one to retake the exam and they recently asked me if I could provide any words of encouragement. To be honest I have been at a loss. It was not me who provided the words the last time after all. I was simply a vessel. The journey of listening for a new message did bear fruit. While this is not a message for my loved one it is a message from which anyone can benefit.
In this and many other societies we treat examinations as if their outcome is a referendum on who we are. When in fact they are at most what set the tone for what we are. Their outcome may say if you are a doctor, lawyer, nurse, teacher or engineer. The mistake we often make is to think that what we are defines who we are (I know I have been guilty of this on occasion) but who you are cannot be defined by a single exam but by how you live your life. Are you kind, gentle, selfless, loving, thoughtful, amiable? These things are what truly define who you are. What does it mean to be a doctor, lawyer, engineer or nurse if you are mean spirited, shallow or narcissistic? I personally would rather be remembered for having been a loving, selfless, kind, God loving janitor as opposed to a mean spirited doctor. So, while an examination may affect what you become they have no bearing on who you become unless you allow them. Allowing what you are to define who you are will have drastic consequences to who you are if you can no longer be what you want.
Does what define you?
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
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